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Failing

"I could fail in chasing my dreams. But at least I have tried"

Introduction

Defining Failing

The fear of failing basically means having a lack of Self-Belief that one will not succeed. Failure could mean to not reach one’s goals, one’s expectations, to underperform, to embarrass oneself and so forth.


This article looks into the Cause of this fear and explore the ways to address this suffering state of mind.


Failing In Depth

The fear of failing can create a great deal of suffering. It can makes us afraid of making "mistakes." And when we make a mistake we can fear being punished for it / punish ourselves for it.


Not everyone will have this fear of failing in the same degree. There will be people out there who don’t have much of this fear. There will be people who will be able to come into acceptance easier with the belief that it is ok to make a mistake in life. After all, it is impossible to live throughout life without making a single mistake


But why do some people have this fear more than others?


Importance

Importance Of Addressing Failing

It is important to address the fear of failing. But to address it one has to first develop the intention to address it so let us look at the negative impacts of the fear to develop the intention naturally.


When we carry a great fear of failing, the fear can inhibit us from chasing our dreams.


How much are you doing the things that you dream about doing?


The Fear of failing can also create blockages to the Knowing of The Self especially in the areas of our desires. The fear can make one believe that one does not have a particular desire because of the fear, negative feelings it can bring out if one were to pursue the desire, for instance chasing one's dreams. Thus the fear can create great blockages in the energetic areas of the body (i.e. cakras) in particular in the areas of the heart, mind and throat – the areas concerning the expressions of The Self. Thus when we fear of failing we will be afraid to "voice" out our true opinions or fight for what we believe in. And within time this can manifest onto the surface as a physical disease.


Are you aware of your inner desires? Your dream job? Your dream lifestyle?


The fear of failing also has a close relationship with the fear of heights and the fear of the unknown.


Path Of Creator

Failing In Relation To The Path Of Creator

As we journey into knowing what the Fear of Failing is really about, we will perhaps first discover that it has to do with the fear of making the wrong decisions i.e. making the right or wrong choices. But as we journey even deeper what we will discover that it is also about how other people will perceive us and how we will perceive ourselves when we fail.


Thus the main spiritual lessons that one will have to go through to transform and release the negativity will revolve around the theme of Self-Judgement.


The Fear At The Idea Level

As the Seed Cause of all forms of Sufferings recede to Negative Ideas, the fear of failing can be paraphrased as the following declaration –


“It is not ok to Fail”


The way the Negative Idea is sustained

There are many ways in which the Negative Idea is sustained. But the biggest action which sustains the fear is Self-Judgement – this includes judging oneself and judging other selves. That is because when we judge people when they fail we will fear being judged similarly when we fail.


Thus Self-Forgiveness and Self-Compassion is a great Catalyst to use one wishes to make great progress on the Path. Sometimes we can believe that Self-Condemnation is a necessary drive for the Self to grow and this negative belief can actually make us stagnate and pull us back from transforming and releasing our fears.


The three biggest things one can do for oneself on the journey is the following


1. Develop a more positive Self-Perception

2. Develop more Self-Compassion

3. Develop more Support For The Self



Practice

Develop Experienced Knowledge

You can develop experienced Knowledge of how much fear you have in failing by observing the Negativities that brims out from within each time you have perceived someone as failing or each time you perceive yourself as failing.


The Creator's Meditation
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In your meditation journey when you begin to wander off in the mind in the imagination of being angry/sad at yourself or others when you or others fail simply observe it as it is and simply focus on your body journey with a Still Mind. This is how we indirectly develop Self-Compassion and Forgiveness - by allowing ourselves to spend more time in peace and happiness rather than dwelling in the negativities of Self-Judgement.


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